Injunctions on masturbation and ways to avoid it
Ibn Kathir (RA) said: Imam Shafi'i and all those who agreed with him have given evidence for the prohibition of masturbation with this verse. The verse is-
“And those who guard their
genitals. except their own wives or owned maids; In this case (in the case of
wives and maidservants) surely, they are not condemned. Those who desire
anything other than that are the transgressors.” (Surat al-Muminun, verses 5-6)
Imam Shafi'i says in the
chapter on Nikah: The verse is clear about the prohibition of anyone other than
the wife and the maidservant by referring to 'guarding the private parts from
anyone other than the wife or the maidservant'. Even then, while insisting on
the verse, Allah Ta'ala says:
"Those who desire
anything beyond that are the transgressors." Therefore, it is not
permissible to use the penis in any case other than as a wife or maidservant,
and masturbation is also not permissible. Allah knows best.
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Some scholars give evidence
with this verse: "Let those who are not capable of marriage adopt
restraint until Allah relieves them of want by His grace." (Surah Noor,
Verse: 33) In this verse, restraint is claimed to be ordered - everything else.
To be patient.
Scholars provide evidence in
this regard with the hadith of Abdullah bin Mas'ud (ra), who said: We were
among the youths who had nothing with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah
be upon him). Then the Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him
peace, said: O young people! Whoever among you can afford the marriage expenses
and is physically capable should marry. Because, it helps to keep her gaze
downwards and protect her private parts. And whoever cannot afford marriage,
let him fast. Because it is an aphrodisiac.” (Sahih Bukhari 5066)
Shari'ah authors have advised
fasting despite hardships if unable to marry. Did not suggest masturbation.
Although the urge to masturbate is high, masturbating is easier than fasting.
But moreover, he did not give that permission.
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Here are some tips and steps
on how a person who indulges in masturbation can get rid of it:
1. The motivation to escape from this habit should
be to obey Allah's commands and refrain from disobeying Him.
2. The permanent solution is to prevent this habit
through marriage. Because this was the advice of the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) to the youth.
3. Stay away from various negative thoughts and bad
thoughts. Keeping oneself busy with the welfare of the world or the hereafter.
Because when negative thinking is allowed to grow, it eventually leads to
action. At the final stage it goes out of control and becomes a habit. Then it
becomes difficult to get rid of it.
4. Keep your eyes down. Because looking at a person
or an obscene image, whether it is a living person or a painting, an unfettered
gaze leads one to haram. This is why Allah Ta'ala said: "Say to the
believers that they lower their gaze" (Surah Noor, verse 30). The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You shall not give vision
after vision. So, the first glance, which falls suddenly, is not sinful, but the
second glance is haram. In addition, it is recommended to stay away from places
where sexual arousal materials exist.
5. Being busy in various worships. Leaving no
leisure time for committing sins.
6. Learning from the physical damage caused by such bad
habits. For example - weakness of vision and nerves, weakness of reproductive
organs, spine pain etc. which are mentioned by the doctors. Likewise various
emotional damages, Such as anxiety-anxiety, emotional distress. A greater loss
is the loss of prayer. Because repeated bathing is required, which is difficult
to do. Especially on winter nights. Similarly breaking the fast.
7. Eliminating misconceptions. Because some young
people think this bad practice is permissible, pretending to protect themselves
from adultery and homosexuality. But maybe that young man is not likely to be
close to adultery and homosexuality.
8. Protect yourself with strong will and strong
decision. Don't give in to Satan. not being lonely; Like spending the night
alone. It is mentioned in the hadith that the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allah be upon him) forbade a man to spend the night alone.
9. Adopting the remedies prescribed by the Prophet;
That is - fasting. Because fasting soothes sexual excitement and refines sexual
desire.
10.
Adhering to
Islamic etiquette while sleeping. Such as reading prayers for sleeping,
sleeping on the right side, not sleeping on the stomach, Since the Prophet Sallallahu
Alayhi Wa Sallam forbids it.
11.
Endow yourself
with the virtues of patience and restraint. Because it is obligatory upon us to
be patient from haram acts; Although some of us have a need to do them. We
should know that if we try to restrain ourselves then eventually it will become
an integral part of the person. will be Because the Prophet, may God bless him
and grant him peace, said: “Whoever practices moderation, Allah will make him
temperate, whoever tries to be impetuous, Allah will make him impetuous, and
whoever tries to be patient, Allah will make him patient. No man has been given
a greater and more beneficial gift than patience.” (Sahih Bukhari 1469)
12.
If one commits
this sin, he should immediately repent, seek forgiveness, do good deeds and not
despair of forgiveness. Because this sin is a poet's sin.
13. Finally, without a doubt,
worshiping Allah, supplicating Him through Dua, asking Him for help is the
greatest way to avoid this bad habit. Because Allah Taala responds to the call
of the supplicant.
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